Well, I’m still unemployed. I stopped writing resumes and cover letters a week ago. I’m waiting for my landlord to evict me since I can’t pay this month’s rent. Of course, I’m exaggerating, but not too much. I have one month to get my stuff together, otherwise I’m going to be knocking on friends' doors. I’m now considering printing a slew of resumes and hitting restaurants and cafes. Something, I vowed not to do since the overprized snobby tea house left a bad taste in my mouth.
On to good news, the Academy I applied for contacted me again. Apparently, I passed the surprised grammar test that I was certain I failed. Whew! Now, I’m on the second stage of the interview. I have to do a lesson on passive and active verbs and, demonstrate them to a grade six student. This should be easy. The director also mentioned something about a Math test. I’m not sure about this one. I don’t have anything to lose, so what the heck, bring it on.
Tuesday, May 30, 2006
Tuesday, May 23, 2006
stillness and a full tank of gas
She knows the way a new city hides her sadness. No rinds on square pavements to slide happier times, no concern eyes that reflect pity as they hand out comforting words they don’t believe. Here, no one knows the taste of her tears. The ocean accepts them as offering and the city of glass shatters them in fragments.
Three words changed the position of the sun. She’s aware of time, of shifts between lovers, of loss. She has seen the single image on his library computer stored in an instant replay, the saved newspaper clippings. Six months powered by ten—how many times will the moon move under the shadow of the earth under these time intervals? Can she compete? Is this wise? A game against time is a game she’ll eventually lose. This is all too familiar—she’s a replacement part bought too soon.
This is two hours worth of writing. Arrrggghhh. Nothing is coming out today. Nada.
This is the first time I’ve allowed myself this much time off, the first time I am unemployed since I was fifteen. I’m enjoying myself. I’ve been spending heaps of time with friends and Jason, catching up on movies and reading books. But I do feel like I’m starting to get lazy. I’m lost without markers. The great thing about being unemployed is that I realized that I am cut from the same mold as my Lola (Grandma), in that, I like having a schedule, having a million things on my plate. This is sooo cool, I’m going to be a tyrant old woman with coconut oil lacquered hair that will drive everyone mad. Weeee!!!!
Three words changed the position of the sun. She’s aware of time, of shifts between lovers, of loss. She has seen the single image on his library computer stored in an instant replay, the saved newspaper clippings. Six months powered by ten—how many times will the moon move under the shadow of the earth under these time intervals? Can she compete? Is this wise? A game against time is a game she’ll eventually lose. This is all too familiar—she’s a replacement part bought too soon.
This is two hours worth of writing. Arrrggghhh. Nothing is coming out today. Nada.
This is the first time I’ve allowed myself this much time off, the first time I am unemployed since I was fifteen. I’m enjoying myself. I’ve been spending heaps of time with friends and Jason, catching up on movies and reading books. But I do feel like I’m starting to get lazy. I’m lost without markers. The great thing about being unemployed is that I realized that I am cut from the same mold as my Lola (Grandma), in that, I like having a schedule, having a million things on my plate. This is sooo cool, I’m going to be a tyrant old woman with coconut oil lacquered hair that will drive everyone mad. Weeee!!!!
Thursday, May 18, 2006
Tuesday, May 16, 2006
Found
I found this letter in April at the back stage of the Old Auditorium. It seems that B still loves this person. I love the anger and frustration of the lines, "soon I won't live in the same city you do anymore. That would be a problem if I cared to see you again. I don't." I equally love that the person B wrote to, printed and folded this letter six times so that it could fit into the pocket of his/her jeans.
I'm thinking of sending it to this site
Monday, May 15, 2006
Please Direct me to the Packaging Manuals
Looking for work is a practice in selling yourself. I started looking about two weeks ago, minus the one week Asuka and Tomomi were in town, so that makes it, one week of typing cover letters and resumes, one after another. I’m treating job hunting as a job. I get up early in the morning and do half an hour of yoga, have breakfast and then, the exercise of selling myself starts. I try to be creative in listing the selling points that make me valuable. Leave out the things that make me who I am. Like the way I trembled and cried while I watched the footage of Negros’ sugar can workers. Or the way, my heart flutters when I meet my Lover’s eyes across a crowded room. I leave these out. They aren’t marketable. I look at myself and ask: could I join the consumer game? Everybody’s in the business of selling. The sooner I learn how to package myself in store bought traits employers want, the sooner I’ll be able to get a job.
Wednesday, May 03, 2006
Step Right Up
Words written on achromatic paper, carbon bleeds on your fingertips. The words are too serious, self-consciously bland—unimaginative—packaged for consumption.
“What did they do to our children?” A woman writes for Adbuster in respond to the recent aggressive advertisements which target children. A child by the age of two could identify 12 brands. Nothing is sacred, everything is marketable. Twelve year old models with glossed lips are adorned with Tommy’s school wear.
I don’t know what is worst, twelve year olds pretending to be grown up or grown women with hello kitty complex. The botox.ca billboards that are on every major intersections stare at me, “Don’t you want to be hot?” Hot fades in my vocabulary.
I’m not aware when the transition happened. I was once a fashion pusher. I victimized many and they loved me:
“Caramel Kiss. It’s gorgeous on you.”
“Honey Blonde. It looks soooo great on the pillows.”
“Curls bring out your playful personality”
“That is sooo COOL.”
“Wow, that is hot!”
I sounded like a flamboyant gay man. But they gave comfort and I made people feel beautiful, even though their husbands, boyfriends, girlfriends hated it. I was good. Really good. Maybe I could fall back on that as a career. Shall I do it?
“What did they do to our children?” A woman writes for Adbuster in respond to the recent aggressive advertisements which target children. A child by the age of two could identify 12 brands. Nothing is sacred, everything is marketable. Twelve year old models with glossed lips are adorned with Tommy’s school wear.
I don’t know what is worst, twelve year olds pretending to be grown up or grown women with hello kitty complex. The botox.ca billboards that are on every major intersections stare at me, “Don’t you want to be hot?” Hot fades in my vocabulary.
I’m not aware when the transition happened. I was once a fashion pusher. I victimized many and they loved me:
“Caramel Kiss. It’s gorgeous on you.”
“Honey Blonde. It looks soooo great on the pillows.”
“Curls bring out your playful personality”
“That is sooo COOL.”
“Wow, that is hot!”
I sounded like a flamboyant gay man. But they gave comfort and I made people feel beautiful, even though their husbands, boyfriends, girlfriends hated it. I was good. Really good. Maybe I could fall back on that as a career. Shall I do it?
Monday, May 01, 2006
12 months
Jen left today. I watched her cycle away from 1986, pulling her trailer. Watched her outline softened, turned to a dot, and finally disappeared on the bend. How many more times do belongings have to be put in a bag, carry it across whatever ocean, drag it from one continent to another. Reminding ourselves that everything in this bag is who we are. Everything in this bag is me. This is me. This is me. Everything in this bag is me. Repeating it till all the words are blunted, over and over to smoothen the corners, to cut a groove in my mind—I will be okay—this is me. This is me. This bag is me. Everything in this bag is me, the weight of my experience, are rolled and folded in this bag. Everything that I need I have in this bag. This is me. This is me. This is me. This is me. This is me. This is me. This is me. This is me. This is me. This is me. This is me. This is me. This is me. This is not me.
Sunday, April 30, 2006
Saturday, April 29, 2006
12 months in reflection
This same time last year, I was looking at things I’ve accumulated in my apartment. Trying to figure out what was going back with me and what would be left behind, to be scattered among my friends. Red futon goes to Andrew, cream futon and blue chair to Skye and Stephen, drawers to my successor, and tomato plants to Asuka. The things I decided to take, I hauled at Ariel’s place in my 60 liter backpack. It took eight trips to fill a one cubic feet cardboard box.
Ariel offered to drive my stuff to her place, but I insisted on transporting them myself. I wanted to carry them. Slowly. I wanted to feel the weight of my possession. The way I’ve done since I was twelve. The first bag I carried was a red duffle bag. My brother helped me dragged it across Hong Kong’s airport. Before we departed, my mother forced her hands through the metal fence that separated us from her; she clung to the strap of my bag and my brother’s black backpack. When I was fifteen, I carried that same duffle bag. I walked and walked. Every step assuring me that I was heading for safety. Everything I owned stuffed in that bag, this time without my brother to help me.
Moving. Belongings. I don’t acquire only because I don’t like parting. If I buy a glass, I would want to relocate with it. Leaving it means leaving a piece of me. There’s only so much of my heart, what’s left is mine—mine to keep.
A lover told me once that he didn’t know me after three years. The imbalanced of information bothered him--the lightness unbearable. I couldn’t tell him that if I share, I would take all the pieces of me back, peel the skin where I've written.
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Ariel offered to drive my stuff to her place, but I insisted on transporting them myself. I wanted to carry them. Slowly. I wanted to feel the weight of my possession. The way I’ve done since I was twelve. The first bag I carried was a red duffle bag. My brother helped me dragged it across Hong Kong’s airport. Before we departed, my mother forced her hands through the metal fence that separated us from her; she clung to the strap of my bag and my brother’s black backpack. When I was fifteen, I carried that same duffle bag. I walked and walked. Every step assuring me that I was heading for safety. Everything I owned stuffed in that bag, this time without my brother to help me.
Moving. Belongings. I don’t acquire only because I don’t like parting. If I buy a glass, I would want to relocate with it. Leaving it means leaving a piece of me. There’s only so much of my heart, what’s left is mine—mine to keep.
A lover told me once that he didn’t know me after three years. The imbalanced of information bothered him--the lightness unbearable. I couldn’t tell him that if I share, I would take all the pieces of me back, peel the skin where I've written.
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Friday, April 28, 2006
A new Comrade
For six months I thought Bobbi is a man. Bobbi turns out to be a tiny red head woman who has the sweetest smile. She's a book store worker at the UBC. She's also an amazing book reviewer. I met her yesterday after selling my old textbooks. In December, she caught my eyes, she said, Blackbird is the wittiest book she’s read in awhile. I love this book. Stephen and Skye came to my house with dinner and their copy of Blackbird two Februaries ago. I was lonely and sad; and they knew the perfect way to cheer me. They were sweet and unselfish, unlike me, I would never offer a book with unbroken spine. But there they were in my doorstep, Skye carrying a picnic basket and Stephen holding Basilieres’s words in his hands.
I normally stopped at the bookstore between my Philosophy and Rhetoric class. I took stocks of all the books waiting for me. The concept of meeting Bobbi crossed my mind every time I read her recent review. Yet, each time I pushed this away. It was hard enough having to explain to my family why I stood outside Manila’s red light district waiting for Sionil Jose. I didn’t want to add stalking reviewers to my list.
Meeting her was accidental. I didn’t force it.
I got giddy talking to her. Meeting someone who loves the same kind of books is rare. Book lovers aren’t like music lovers. There aren’t enough of us around.
I normally stopped at the bookstore between my Philosophy and Rhetoric class. I took stocks of all the books waiting for me. The concept of meeting Bobbi crossed my mind every time I read her recent review. Yet, each time I pushed this away. It was hard enough having to explain to my family why I stood outside Manila’s red light district waiting for Sionil Jose. I didn’t want to add stalking reviewers to my list.
Meeting her was accidental. I didn’t force it.
I got giddy talking to her. Meeting someone who loves the same kind of books is rare. Book lovers aren’t like music lovers. There aren’t enough of us around.
Thursday, April 27, 2006
rice papers i carry
I wrote this two years ago on my shouji. Ripped, folded and carried it across the Pacific.
David's Gray's falling leaves....in seconds he becomes alive.
I'm at Stella's and he's putting salsa on his baked eggs.
"That's the last time we're drinking that much gin."
I nod in silence. It's three in the afternoon. The sun hurts my eyes. I would have opted to stay on his couch reading a book, but he insisted on having breakfast. He kept rehydrating me to force me out of bed. To shower away the night's stench.
Normally he'd jump in the shower. But after a night of gin, sex is laborious, the same way trading words become pointless. When I got out of the shower my hair was tangled. I refused to buy conditioner and leave it at his flat. And he never bothered to shelf things I needed, the way other lovers would.
Lovers offer the strangest thing: pink purse, framed happy photos, apartment keys. In his case, he offered me Naomi Klein's No Logo on our second date. Betrand Russel's Why I am not a Christian appeared the next day on my porch the first time he spent the night in my single yellow bed.
"There's a brush on the counter of the dresser," as he looked at my dripping hair.
"Uh-huh." It belonged to his previous lover. Unlike me, she brought things in his apartment. Face cream, hair wax, conditioner. I discovered them neatly aligned in his medicine cabinet. Perhaps, they wanted permanence. Or perhaps, she wanted to look human when she walked back to her place.
I used all her stuff till they ran out. I also used her brush till I saw no point to it. I would have continued using it if it was the right bristles.
Lovers and Property. How could it be wrong to have ownership? To be claimed. To announce that you're in love. There isn't.
My relationship with him is shifting. I feel it as I sit across, watching him chew. I've seen the expiration date on the milk carton, but I turned the date so he wouldn't notice.
A friend told me that there's no such thing as soul mates. Relationship doesn't even have to have love. That all relationship is a contract. Sex is a part of the contract, so is sharing the bills. She said this so passionately, I almost believed her. Except her words didn't carry the weight of what's trully behind her heart. Like all good friends, I agreed. And we ordered more wine. Like all good friends, I spat on the architect's name that broke her heart.
David's Gray's falling leaves....in seconds he becomes alive.
I'm at Stella's and he's putting salsa on his baked eggs.
"That's the last time we're drinking that much gin."
I nod in silence. It's three in the afternoon. The sun hurts my eyes. I would have opted to stay on his couch reading a book, but he insisted on having breakfast. He kept rehydrating me to force me out of bed. To shower away the night's stench.
Normally he'd jump in the shower. But after a night of gin, sex is laborious, the same way trading words become pointless. When I got out of the shower my hair was tangled. I refused to buy conditioner and leave it at his flat. And he never bothered to shelf things I needed, the way other lovers would.
Lovers offer the strangest thing: pink purse, framed happy photos, apartment keys. In his case, he offered me Naomi Klein's No Logo on our second date. Betrand Russel's Why I am not a Christian appeared the next day on my porch the first time he spent the night in my single yellow bed.
"There's a brush on the counter of the dresser," as he looked at my dripping hair.
"Uh-huh." It belonged to his previous lover. Unlike me, she brought things in his apartment. Face cream, hair wax, conditioner. I discovered them neatly aligned in his medicine cabinet. Perhaps, they wanted permanence. Or perhaps, she wanted to look human when she walked back to her place.
I used all her stuff till they ran out. I also used her brush till I saw no point to it. I would have continued using it if it was the right bristles.
Lovers and Property. How could it be wrong to have ownership? To be claimed. To announce that you're in love. There isn't.
My relationship with him is shifting. I feel it as I sit across, watching him chew. I've seen the expiration date on the milk carton, but I turned the date so he wouldn't notice.
A friend told me that there's no such thing as soul mates. Relationship doesn't even have to have love. That all relationship is a contract. Sex is a part of the contract, so is sharing the bills. She said this so passionately, I almost believed her. Except her words didn't carry the weight of what's trully behind her heart. Like all good friends, I agreed. And we ordered more wine. Like all good friends, I spat on the architect's name that broke her heart.
Wednesday, April 26, 2006
Done. Finito. Tapos. Owari.
It all began with me telling myself to get out of bed in the morning. Then, it progressed to me telling myself to leave the shower. As the water pellets down my skin, I would stand there till my brown skin turns red, prolonging warmth. Now this self talk has spilled to every waking minute. I could no longer do anything without verbalization. I have become one of those that address themselves in the third person.
“Malani, go get your BC driver’s license today.”
“Malani, you don’t need that third glass of scotch.”
"Malani, you can’t have that brownie. You’ve only been studying for two hours. Reward means that you’ve actually done something.”
“Malani, you’re so lame. I can’t believe you’re giving up after five hours writing your rhetoric paper.”
“Malani, toughen up. Shove more Shakespeare down your throat.”
“Read! Study! Write! Research! Work Harder!”
The me that talks to myself is one bossy person. Good thing I don’t know many people on the streets of Vancouver. I scare myself. I don’t mind if people think I’m a little crazy. There is actually comfort to not having to pay attention to the people walking around me. Is caring about what other’s thought a form of shallowness? Hmmmm.....
Last night I wrote my last exam. My feet moved with incredible lightness as I hopped and skipped all the way to the bus stop at nine:thirty. Now, I’m hoping that myself would stop talking to me in that demanding way for I am free. Yes. I am FREE.
“Malani, go get your BC driver’s license today.”
“Malani, you don’t need that third glass of scotch.”
"Malani, you can’t have that brownie. You’ve only been studying for two hours. Reward means that you’ve actually done something.”
“Malani, you’re so lame. I can’t believe you’re giving up after five hours writing your rhetoric paper.”
“Malani, toughen up. Shove more Shakespeare down your throat.”
“Read! Study! Write! Research! Work Harder!”
The me that talks to myself is one bossy person. Good thing I don’t know many people on the streets of Vancouver. I scare myself. I don’t mind if people think I’m a little crazy. There is actually comfort to not having to pay attention to the people walking around me. Is caring about what other’s thought a form of shallowness? Hmmmm.....
Last night I wrote my last exam. My feet moved with incredible lightness as I hopped and skipped all the way to the bus stop at nine:thirty. Now, I’m hoping that myself would stop talking to me in that demanding way for I am free. Yes. I am FREE.
Tuesday, April 18, 2006
My Kick Ass Group
For three months, I spent countless of hours in Flex hammering out our adaptation of Lear. Our production was brilliant. Most importantly, I got to know nine really awesome people that I would have never met if it wasn't for this course.
I am really proud of how beautiful we worked together. This is enormous because I hate co-operative learning and group projects. Numerous occasions my group set aside personal issues and differences to maintain group harmony. Meagan said it best, "I didn't care what play Claire is in, I just wanted to be in her group." Heck, we all wanted to be in Claire's group. Claire, I am so your groupie. No, really, you should have seen one of the other groups. It was painful to watch them, not because they were awful, but because you could see that they did not like each other.
Well, Lear is finished and I have nine people that continue to harrass me and fill my inbox with sappy messages of wanting to get together.
Sunday, April 16, 2006
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